Play With Grace

    Mahjong Etiquette

    The unwritten rules that keep every game enjoyable and every table welcoming.

    Calling & Claiming

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    "Mahjong" always takes priority over all other calls.

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    You may only call a discard for an exposed Pung, Kong, Quint, or to complete Mahjong β€” never for a pair (unless it completes your hand).

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    There are NO Chows in American Mahjong β€” you cannot call a tile to make a sequential run.

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    If two players call the same discard, the player whose turn comes next (closest to the discarder's left) gets priority.

    Joker Etiquette

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    You may exchange a natural tile for a Joker in another player's exposed group β€” but only at the start of your turn, before drawing.

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    Always announce "Joker exchange" clearly so all players can see.

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    Jokers that are discarded are dead β€” they cannot be picked up by any player.

    Rack & Tile Discipline

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    Keep your tiles on your rack and concealed from other players at all times.

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    Place discards in a neat, orderly row in the center of the table so all players can see them.

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    Don't reach for a tile until the previous discard has been named and a brief moment has passed for others to call.

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    Announce your discard clearly by naming the tile (e.g. "3 Bam", "South", "Soap").

    Dead Hands & Penalties

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    A hand is "dead" if you have the wrong number of tiles, expose incorrectly, or call Mahjong with an invalid hand.

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    A dead hand must continue to draw and discard but cannot win. Don't reveal which hand you were playing.

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    If you mistakenly call Mahjong and expose your tiles, your hand is dead for that round.

    General Good Manners

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    Don't name tiles you're looking for or comment on what others might need.

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    Keep the game moving β€” study the card between rounds, not during play.

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    Congratulate the winner graciously, even when they take your tile!

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    Put phones away during play β€” it's a social game, be present.

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    Offer to help new players without being condescending.